Backpacks Packed? Don’t Forget These Safety Skills

As the school years kicks into gear and kids head to after-school activities, it’s the right time for parents and caregivers to refresh safety talks with their children. 

As children gain more independence by walking to school with friends, waiting at bus stops or staying late for activities like sports, they have the chance to practice essential safety skills. This includes knowing what to do if they are ever approached by someone they do not know or trust. These situations are rare, but they can happen.

Since 2005, NCMEC has tracked more than 16,000 attempted abductions. Last year alone, 712 children were involved, highlighting the importance of teaching kids how to recognize danger and respond safely.

So, what should parents know about attempted abductions? Based on more than a decade of data, NCMEC has found that attempted abductions occur most often when children are going to or from school or school-related activities. Our data shows that school-aged children are at greatest risk on school days, before and after school, and even after dinner.

These incidents usually take place on the street while children are playing, walking or riding bikes. They can happen whether a child is alone, with friends or even alongside an adult, making it important for families to review safety plans and practice them often.

Understanding common tactics can also help keep kids safe. Abductors may ask questions, offer rides or try to lure a child with money or candy. Teach kids to never approach a car, even if the driver says they need help or directions, and to always check with you before changing plans or accepting a ride from anyone.

You can also look for opportunities to practice “what if” scenarios, so your child knows how to respond in real situations. Remind them that it’s okay to fight back by walking away, running, pulling free, yelling or kicking.

Many children have successfully avoided abduction by acting quickly, running away, fighting back or attracting attention. In other cases, friends or nearby adults have stepped in to help, showing how quick thinking and bystander action can make the difference

Above all, encourage children to trust their instincts. If something feels wrong, they should leave the situation immediately and tell a trusted adult.

Remember, safety talks are not meant to scare children, but to help them stay aware, make smart choices and feel confident and prepared while they navigate the independence that comes with growing up.

For more information on attempted abductions and tips for parents, visit our website here: https://www.missingkids.org/education/kidsmartz.